“anak, kahit tayo mahirap karangalan ang ating yaman”

“nagkulang ang magulang niyan”

“kulang sa bugbug yan”

“yan daw ay lahi”

Maricar, you are young and intelligent girl, just leave all the revenge into God’s hands, trust God confess all ur sins and move on God is gracious aside from your family He is your strength!

Just keep on listening of Mariah Carey’s song “Can’t take that away” and “i can make it through the rain” mai-inspire ka… you hurt nobody so dont be afraid. Fight a good fight of faith. move on di ka pababayaan ni Lord just be humble in Him and rest in His powers.

Just count your blessing right now, you have a lot of projects so do your best to prove to all those people that are condemning you that you are not a bad person, you are only human and if theres anyone who is valid to judge you, it is only God Himself.

I salute your family, your parents for they still let you go on with your showbiz career, its good that you continue ur life than be depressed.

Galingan mo pa ang acting mo, sa tulad mong tumayo sa pagsubok maraming magtitiwala sayong tao. go Girl show the world the best that have got. yung galing mo sa acting.

Many people are waiting for your tv appearances and many of us will support you so do your best okey and ignore those people who are judging you, bahala na si God sa knila..

keep it up Godbless!!

PRo or anti pRemarital k man, aminin n natin to..kNG nkapag antay sana c mariCar hIndi nya dadanasin ang dinadanas nya ngaun..last sunday ngshopiNG cna maricAr at nanay nya s duTy freE,bulungan ang mga tao, umiyak ang nanay nya..ang pangYayaring ito ay isang malaking pagsubok s pamilya nla..soMehow maricar learnd her lesoN..sana wag n nting antayin n mangyari dn s atin to..anjan ang pamilya at mga kaibgan ntin para alagaAn at suportahan tayo..pero hIgIt kaninO man tau ang my pnakamalaking resPonsibilidad para pangalagaAn ang katawan at repuTasyoN ntin..

Such is the appeal of a personal scandal to our daily lives. They are like mosquitoes that follow their prey with radar accuracy. A scandal permeates our daily existence from scandalmongers, and announces itself with a drum roll making its grand entrance known for public condemnation. Meanwhile, the source rejoices in the shadow anticipating the big bang. The ripple effect of the internet is swift and without conscience. Such is the effect of the recent sex video tapes that has aroused the characteristic “tsismoso” and “tsismosa” in each of us. Unfortunately for the subjects of such tapes, their lives have been upended by a vicious act of someone whose obvious sole purpose is to inflict pain.

Who the hell are Maricar Reyes and Hayden Kho in my world of bills to pay and mouths to feed! Suffice to say I watched it with indifference given that it wasn’t Brad and Angelina. Objectively, the tapes are tame in the instructional world of Kama Sutra. Puhleez, don’t insult my proficiency on this subject matter, okay? My initial reaction was the obvious staged performance of the male partner. His intermittent glances towards the camera gave away his slimy intentions. His actions appeared calculated and self-directed. I can only assume that at that given time he felt the need to validate his performance in bed by producing a tape of what ought to have been their Mt. Fuji expression of love in the privacy of two souls becoming one. Judging from the stolen glances directed towards the opposite side of the room– where I bet sat a dressing room mirror–he must have thought he was Zeus’ gift to women! Are you kidding me? Motel or hotel? Whatever! On the other hand, the unknowing female victim– in her wondrous prime and all of Eve’s glory– was only responding to her sexual instincts. I saw a strong woman expressing her passion with the wrong man. I saw her as Juliet swimming in the climax of foreplay and sweet surrender to a Romeo impostor. She doesn’t need Freud obviously, but he needs serious lessons from a thug on “What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas!”
The fact of the matter is that these were two young people engaging consensually in the act as primal as the Stone Age. Nothing wrong with that. Come on, had it been edited and shown with the cheesy background of Celine Dion’s “My Heart Will Go On”, it could pass off for a classy porn! Not that I’ve watched one too many. I have confessed my sins, mind you. Joking aside, the tapes have drawn all the attention from the curious beavers because it involves two famous people who grace TV ads and magazines that provide vicarious entertainment to the bored public. Add to that the MD credentials to their name. Woe to the famous and privileged, such is the price of fame, but we all know that, duh!

In reading the commentaries, thoughts, and judgments shared by the viewing public, the comments were expected and predictable from a culture whose lives is at least 90 percent influenced by the word “hiya” or shame. Shame is not on Maricar or Hayden for engaging in sex. Barring Catholic teachings on the egregiousness of premarital sex, at least they have shown that they were responsible enough to use protection. As pre-med students, the last thing you want is getting sidetracked from your dream path by getting pregnant or contracting STD! The real shame in this situation is the continued proliferation of this unfortunate incident by spreading the links and videos. It is worse than the spread of the N1H1 virus! But think for one moment and strip off fame and privilege from the equation. What lies beneath the so called scandal is a human being. Stripping the individual with his or her dignity by sensationalizing it, what profit is gained? Does it feed the soul or make it less sinful? Is it right to anoint the true North of one’s moral compass? No amount of second guessing will do any one of us any good. Do one good thing for yourself. Stop buzzing about it. Don’t be the heartless mosquito. Fly away and move on.